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writes: I am 25, yet do not feel ready to have a relationship with a girl. I just enjoy flirting and may be touching. But that's it. Anything more is a clear no no and i push away girls who try to encroach in to having more. I think it is difficult for me to trust a girl in sharing my feelings and getting closer to her. I did not have a very good relationship with my mom who would always push me away whenever i went close to her to seek her affection. She also used to be emotionally closed. Any advice on how do i work on this?
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reader, cd206  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 You don't have to be more involved with a girl than you want to be but it sounds like your lack of interest is starting to worry you so it might be worth talking to someone professional about it. However it sounds to me more like you're just not ready. It might not even be connected to your mother. If you think it is you might find talking to someone helpful.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 Don't treat your Family as a role model.
Try to base your relationships with girls on interaction rather than emotions.
You think it is difficult for you to trust a girl in sharing your feelings and getting closer to her.
Maybe you are right, maybe not, I guess there may be something else you don't tell here.
One day you will encounter someone who has been in a similar situation and who knows...
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