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writes:Hi! My name is Cristina, I've 29 years old and I should get married in 4 weeks. 2 days ago I had a discussion with my (ex) fiance and he slapped me. I left him. Can I ever trust him? What should I do? I love him...BUT...maybe he would slap me again.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 If I was going to get married to a man and then he slapped me, I would leave him too! Once they do that, it will only get worse when they marry. I would think very carefully!
If he slapped you once, there is a very good chance he will do it again! It was good for you to have left him! No one should physically hurt the one they love....NEVER!!
Please think this over very carefully. For your own safety
I think you should stay away from men like that, and find someone who will treat you with love and respect!!
GOOD LUCK!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): It looks like the very next time you have an argument with him he'll use violence against you...and the next...and the next...and so on so don't get back with him. If you do the violence could end up getting worse. All i say is well done for leaving him, move on and find someone who deserves you and won't use violence on you.
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reader, Doc Thairish  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 hi there,
let me tell u a story, my sister was with a man who slaps her about and made the fatal mistake by marrying him, oh he promised her it would never happen again and now she has to live with a big scar on her lip coz he shoved a broken glass in her face!
listen im the type of guy who hates men who hit women and NO they will never change coz if you take him back then it will be a case of "i can do it again coz she will forgive me again AND again!
i live in fear that one day the police will knock on the door and tell me she has been fatally injured of even dead!
DONT BE THE VICTIM! PLEASE
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