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writes:I decided not to call him again after he said to me that he didn't want to marry me or see me often. However, i don't know if i can keep this decision for ever. I think that i will change my mind as i am feeling that i miss him. However i don't want to call him. How can i be more determined to my decision not meet him again? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (12 October 2007):
Is your self esteem so low you would sink back to some one who thinks so little of you?
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reader, red1982  +, writes (12 October 2007):
Hi there
You could always try socialising more so that your life is full without him. Join some new clubs and get some hobbies to keep your mind off of him.
Everytime you feel yourself wanting to ring this man could you ring one of your girlfiends instead? They could at least remind you of why you didn't want to ring him in the first place and hopefully strengthen your resolve.
You are worth so much more then just being used by a man while he waits for someone else to come along.
Take care of yourself
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reader, JustaGuy +, writes (12 October 2007):
Why did he not want to marry or see you often? Perhaps he is not ready for marriage, this does not mean he does'nt love you though.
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reader, xDaniloux  +, writes (12 October 2007):
The big question here is why be commited to someone that doesn't want to commit. I really feel for you. All break-ups are difficult to go through but for your own well being and your own happiness you need to stick with your guns on this one!You need to trust yourself that you are doing the right thing for you. ANd in doing this you will come out stronger in the end.
For the time being why don't you take up something that interests you a night-time class perhaps that will occupy your mind with something positive, so that your not thinking about it so much
Best of luck to you and use this time to focus on yourself.
Your worth every bit of it!!!
Lots of love
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (12 October 2007):
 Hi, i'm sorry that you are feeling down in this situation, you need to pick yourself up and get on with things,if he is not interested in you any more then its his loss, you are the better person if you get on with your life there is bigger and better things out there!!Sorry if i can't give you the answer that you are looking for, but Good Luck.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (12 October 2007):
 Hi,
Everytime that you feel lonely and are weakening on your decision, just remember that this guy does not want a future with you. He would just be using you until someone comes along that he does want to marry and will leave you broken hearted. Do you really want to put yourself through that pain.
You have done the right thing, so try to stick to that. There is someone out there better for you than that.
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