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I'm tri-sexual - why do I do what I do?

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Question - (12 October 2007) 9 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2007)
A male United States age 51-59, *STVLVR_23505 writes:

I'm a Trisexual Transvestite. First trisexual means I love women, men, and pretty passable male to female pre-op transsexuals. I'm a transvestite because I dress up in womens lingerie and dresses for sexual reasons. I also feel very submissive and like the lack of control. I have fantasies of having sex for hours either in water, floating or suspended by a group. Usually there are either P/P Pre-Op TS's in charge or GG's. Guys are always bisexual.

I'd like to really get to the why I do what I do, why it feels so good, and want to understand my proclivities.

Chaz/Chay (When dressed)

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A female reader, Veronica_h United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2007):

I fantasise about sex with pre-op transsexuals and I'm female. I once had the opportunity to have anal sex with a pre-op girl and discovered my fantasy was a fantastic reality.

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A female reader, Mushgirl United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2007):

Mushgirl agony auntOh and another thing - maybe it's something to do with your childhood? I find it really interesting how people's childhood experiences can really affect there sexual preferences. I don't know if being beaten at home when I was younger has made me submissive (plus most girls are, apparently), or if the uneasiness of going to the circus as a kid has induced my liking of theatrics in sex, but I find it all really fascinating! Think back and see if any of it's linked to your younger years.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007):

It sounds like you've really explored sex, so good for you! I'm a girl but I find transvestites are a big turn-on for me, and I'm submissive too. My last boyfriend was so unforceful (not his fault, he was trying to be nice... not what I had in mind) that anything physical we did just frustrated me. I'm glad there are people like you out there because I'm worried that I'll never be able to go as far as I want to with sex. The sky's the limit! I think you understand it all a lot better than many of us.

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A male reader, TSTVLVR_23505 United States +, writes (20 October 2007):

TSTVLVR_23505 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007):

Have you ever seen the movie Hedwig & The Angry Inch? If not, you should I think you'll really like it. It's really good

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I'm wondering why that is relevant? Any one?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007):

Hi its Eva/Evan and Shannon/Steve here, we are in the same boat as you. Our answer is simple be whom you wan't to be when you wan't to be it. It is totally normal i love the feel of silky nightdresses and skirts i feel so free and unrestricted. There is nothing wrong with what we do. We love being tri-sexual stick with it. Maybe we'll meet some day goodbye for now all our love XXXXXXX

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007):

Have you ever seen the movie Hedwig & The Angry Inch? If not, you should I think you'll really like it. It's really good.

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A male reader, TSTVLVR_23505 United States +, writes (12 October 2007):

TSTVLVR_23505 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Both answers are great. Thank you.

I understand the , it is what it is, theory. I'm cool with me, Tellulah, but thank you very much for your support.

Baby Duck, it's not emotional, it's more of a intellectual curiosity per se, ie, how a mechanical thing works, that is one facet of what I'm searching for, either scientifically, biochemically, or what have, as well as the sociological, Why's. Plus anyone who wishes sexual commentation is definitely welcome.

Chaz.

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A female reader, angelblueeyes United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2007):

angelblueeyes agony auntHi, Firstly i don't believe that anything is wrong with you but i do suggest that you should see a doctor who will be able to reccommend a specialist councellor for you to talk to.There maybe a pyschological reason for the feeling's that you get, i'm sorry that i have not given you the answer that you want but i wish you the best.

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2007):

TELLULAH agony auntHave you ever thought of having a cup of tea and a bit of cake. It works for Boy George.

XX sorry dont mean to take the mickey, but you like group sex and sound like you are doing OK. Whats to understand?.

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