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writes:I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I was going through the web history on the computer this morning, trying to find a page I stumbled across the other day, and came across a load of pages that I can only assume my boyfirend has been visiting. They are about local dogging sites, swinging clubs etc. This has really shocked and hurt me...do you think I should ask him what's going on?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (12 October 2007):
Don't make a big deal of it. Just mention you noticed.
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reader, Titania70 +, writes (12 October 2007):
I think it's always better to know than to stay in the dark and have that constantly nag in the back of your head. Approach the subject subtly by asking him how he feels about these subjects, that you have read an article in the paper about it (do your research first though cos you'll come across prepared). He might just be curious about it and the swinging scene in particular is made up of consenting adults that want the same thing. What you should be wary of is if he's been viewing material that includes children and animals. That's just NOT good and if this is the case, you cannot be with someone like that and you should report him to the authorities. Sorry but I would NOT tolerate such abominations from the man that is supposed to be in a loving relationship with me. Or anybody else, in fact. Be strong and forthright. If it bothers you, you have a right to ask questions. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): Hi,
because these sites are in your history does not mean he has looked at them sometimes things like that pop up when looking at other sites, but if this is really bothering you then i would discuss this with him it maybe perfectly innocent.
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