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writes: i have been seeing this guy for well over a year now and we split up a while ago but i met him a few nights ago and we had sex and played strip poker with him and his mate as a laugh but he hasnt botherd texting me since..what should i do? I have text him but he's ignored me.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (6 June 2006):
 If he really did love you and want to be with you, he would call you. If you keep on calling and texting when he doesn't reply, you will turn into a stalker.
Forget him and find someone who treats women with more respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut what if he really does love me and i loose the chance of bein with the oen guy i love and care about?i dunno what to do?
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (5 June 2006):
 DrPsych is right if he wanted a relationship he would be 'knocking your door down'. I hate to say this but honey you were a booty call, a fling, one night stand.
A good rule of thumb is don't jump into bed with anyone that you aren't in a serious relationship with. Otherwise you're asking to be used.
You deserve better, forget this guy and go out and find a better catch.
GOOD LUCK!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 June 2006):
 He will continue to ignore you until he gets horny again. He is using you as a booty call and that's it. If you want to settle for the cheap seats then be there when he comes around. If you feel you have much more to offer then look for a guy with whom you can actually have a relationship.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (5 June 2006):
 You split up with this guy a while back and he doesn't sound like he wants to renew the relationship. When men are into you then they will be knocking your door down, or texting your phone to the point of melt down. It is also the case that some men have very poor double standards. They like girls who will have some 'adult fun' like strip poker with their mates or a quickie in the bedroom but they don't necessarily want them as their long-term girlfriends. He is probably not answering your texts because he doesn't know what to say, and thinks you want to restart the relationship. You just have to sit back and accept that you cannot control people around you, and move on. You deserve to be respected by someone you had sex with enough for them to return your phone messages. If they are not giving you that respect, then they are not worth investing time and energy into. Better luck next time!
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