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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:For a while now, I've been seeing this kind, stubborn, generous, difficult, intelligent, and hilarious man (Angelo). When I first met him, I really didn't think we'd make it far. But then, there was this instant chemistry and ease with each other that came naturally though we were both shy. All my close friends admit he's kind but want me to dump him. My mother thinks he's out to use me and is married since she believes I should have met parents by now. He's 35 and I'm 19. Anyway, hurt by him I went out with another man. No sex but pretty close. I kept thinking about Angelo and I cried while with the other. I never wanted to love him. He's never asked me to his girlfriend but he treats me so well. I want to walk away but most of all, I want to stop loving him. How do I do this?
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reader, whiteelephant  +, writes (13 October 2010):
Give yourself 3 months. That's how long it takes physiologically to stop being infatuated with somebodyif you still have feelings longer than that...then its something more
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