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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I've recently gotten out of a 15 year marriage and am ready to start dating again. I have found someone I'm interested in, but do not really want to make the first move. The guy is a friend on fb, who I grew up with. He seems to 'like' EVERYTHING I put up and I've noticed he tends to talk to me more than anyone else, but other than a couple of messages has made no attempt to contact me. What are some little 'hints' I can drop to show him I am interested? Are there any 'hints' I should look for from him? He knows I'm divorced, but I'm not sure if he knows I'm ready to start dating. I get a gut feeling he may like me, but I'm ready for him to MAKE A MOVE!
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reader, xanthic +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Who says you can't be the one to make a move? Most (if not all) men would be flattered by a woman taking initiative, rather than waiting for him to chase her.
Tell him you'd like to speak with him on the phone for a change, because Facebook can be very impersonal. If that goes well, make a suggestion to meet in person. Things should progress naturally from there.
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