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writes:I'm 13 and I'm in love with a boy.. we have been going out now for 15 months and we get on really well.. like best mates. We are the same age and we always have so much fun together, but in the last 3 months he is being difficult and it's starting to upset me.He keeps saying that I don't love him and that I love his best friend or other boys. He sometimes pushes me away when I go to hug him or hold his hand and he gets really angry with me and tells me to stop being stupid or he tells me not to speak to him and to walk away...He has always been inscure with me becasue everyone says that I can do better than him so he thinks I'm going to cheat on him.. but I'm 13, I'm hardly going to have an affair. But I love him and I can't imagine it without him...please help... what shall I do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): hi; I dont know where to start. Lets begin with him. First of all,he either has a lot of insercurities or something has happened to make him loose trust in you. you need to find out what it is and then deal with it. if its insercurities then there is absolutely nothing you can do, due to him being effected from his child hold or the past. If you did do something to loose his trust then try and slowly regain it back again. I believe in second chances. If it is none of the above then purely, he's just not that into you love. SorryBe a strong girl, you deserve better than this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your help, its a good idea writting a letter but wot to put in it.. im not sure lol, becuase in my eyes i dont need to apologise, but i culd say how i feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): wow... that sounds so familiar. I had the same problem except I was the difficult guy. and I to accused my girlfriend of affairs with my friend Joe. I did some stupid stuff as well. And deep down, I felt horrible. So I recently wrote her a letter apologising for all of my pathetic actions. Maybe you could write him a letter. What to write exactly, I have no idea. Do your best, and good luck!
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