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writes:hello all ... I just saw the site , and i've found many serious and support comments and i have to thank you all ... About my problem : these 4 last months , i saw some bad changes in my sex with my gf , it comes before the time .. That makes my gf confused .. i try other times one or two ...i want some words and support from ( men or women ) in these cases, to avoid this kind of problem because .. it really bothers me: (( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): LOL... Aunts and Uncles can be reached by private mail, just click at the link at the top marked "mailbox". I might not respond right away, but I will write you back as soon as I can. Take care.
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reader, abdallah +, writes (16 July 2008):
abdallah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha Thnx for ur help ... i will try to convince her this week-end .. try again .. she's my only hole !!
have a nice day . how i can know you more ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): Go get her tiger, and make her feel good... :P
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reader, abdallah +, writes (16 July 2008):
abdallah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey my friend ,
thanks for your help and your support , i appreciate it alot
and hope that will works .. it's really nice to met you all & hear your support
thnx ; hope that we will stay in touch
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Sorry, if your reading english is better then here is the problem and here is my advice.... LOL
Don't worry, this is normal. Sex isn't perfect every time no matter what people say. Sex went wrong one time, everybody worried and got upset. The next time you got scared again and everything went wrong. Now both are afraid everytime you have sex that something will go wrong, so everything dose go wrong.
Four times you've come too fast, well that's not very long. You don't have a problem yet. What you can do is buy a vibrator and use it on your girlfriend. Try and find out what pleases her and gives her an orgasm. Kiss and caress her and worship her body, she will be melting in your hands. You will learn what she likes and you will become a better lover. Your penis should come up again and you can try to have sex. This time you should last longer and she will be happy because she gets to come again.....LOL
Don't worry, worrying is bad, it ruins sex. Sex should be fun. Laugh at your penis, laugh when sex goes wrong. These things happen to everyone. Everything is normal, you just worry too much.
Change your diet, eat good food, make sure you excersise, keep your body in shape, get enough sleep. All these things will help you to become the best lover in the world.
Your girlfriend is lucky, you are a kind man, you are very brave to write to us to make sure she is happy. You are very lucky, your girlfriend loves you, she wants you and she likes to have sex to you. If you still have problems in one month, please come back and tell us how things went.
Good luck to you both, blessings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): In 4 relations things have been bad. Not very long. No problem. Normal. Not all the time sex good. Sometimes sex goes bad, this is normal for everybody.
Solution: Do not worry, laugh with your girlfriend. Laugh at penis. Laugh and say the penis is tired and wants to go to sleep. Laugh and say, my girlfriend is very beautiful, I want you too much, I cannot wait, my penis can not wait.
Do not worry, worry is bad and sex should be fun. You need to have sex with your girlfriend afterwards in a different way. Have you got a vibrator, a dildo. Use a pretend, plastic penis to make her happy. Watch your girlfriend, see how to make her happy. Kiss and caress her body, make her feel good. Penis should come up again.
If you still have problems, come back and write more. Do this for one month, and then come back and tell us if it worked good. Good luck, blessings
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reader, abdallah +, writes (15 July 2008):
abdallah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes this is not my first language, you're right ... i talk about something it's really new for our relationship .. more then 5years now that we are together .. it was really well & good before and all the things go smoothly , i can do 2 or 3 times :-)
now those last 4 relations , really too bad & fast dont understand .. and it bothers my girlfriend, it makes me not sad or something, just sex is something vital and important for us
are there any solutions or something that can help me? hope that you will understand what i mean
Thnx in advance :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Sorry, English is not your first language. Bad things happen with sex. I don't understand. Tell us more.
You come very fast perhaps and she get very sad. Does your penis get hard again, can you have sex with her again. Maybe your penis comes to fast every time. Please explain, we will try to help.
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Can you explain what kind of negative changes have happened before you had sex with her? I did't quite sure understood your problem. Sorry, but I would like some clarification to see if I can help you.
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