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*isscutiepie
writes:I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 17 months. However, he treats me like a door step. He pushes me, he yells so close to my face that I can feel his spit, and he tells me that he is the best guy that I will ever find. I know I sound stupid, but it's hard for me to let him go. I lost my Daddy, and I am really really scared to lose yet another man in my life. I hope no one is angry or disappointed in me. But I really need some good advice. I pray to god and ask him for guidance but I really need the help. I feel like I am worthless and I can't go to sleep some nights because I don't know what to do. Please offer me some good advice. Please and thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (23 August 2009):
 My heart really goes out to you. No one deserves to be treated like this. You're worth 100 of your boyfriend, and you need to find the courage to leave him, because he's dragging you down. Look to your family and friends for support...How dare this boy treat you like this when you are grieving for your father!!x
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reader, Sphronas +, writes (23 August 2009):
 It must have been hard to lose your father, so your fear of rejection and loss is perfectly understandable. However, it sounds like you are in an abusive relationship, so that in this case, losing your boyfriend would be the best thing that could happen to you.
You are NOT worthless, you are a human being who has the right to be treated with love and respect, and your boyfriend is definitely NOT the best guy that you will ever find. Let him go! You are scared and insecure right now, but inside of you there is a strong and beautiful young woman. Give her a chance to come out and assert herself.
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