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writes:Everyone has moved on with their lives my mom, my brother, all my past friends. im only 15. i dont know how i feel. sometimes i think im just jealous of them. i have everything i want, but not everything i need i feel empty hollow...please i need some advise on how to forget all my past i had with old friends and memories they all did why cant I?
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 why do you want to forget the past? the past is a part of us. you can't forget it. it'll haunt ti'll you're dead...what you want is an impossibilitie
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (11 November 2008):
hiyah you just need to rebuild youself inside and remind yourself that althought it never goes away past is past and it needs to remain there, or it wil affect your future. you dont go into detail but i get the impression youve had it tough for a while and i understand what your saying about the emptiness but nobodys going to fix it for you, its up to you and if youve lost all the fight in you your life will never improve.
dont be jealous of them aspire to be them one day and look at them as a goal and think im going to be like that.
its hard to remain constantly posivtive and those people that claim never to have those off days are liars! nobody is perfect and its just the way we all are.
try to focus on the future. and rather than focusin on negatives in your life, the positives are what you should be aiming it.
it gets worse before it gets better but god its worth it once ya there you just have to find that thing inside you that allows you to become your own person and enjoy it.
im not going to judge your age but you are young and theres a lot out there to come yet, thats the best feeling, a future one where you decide what stays and what goes, making the right descions on your own. and your own mistakes, the past wont go away and nobody can change it but you can the future- your way.
i wish you all the luck x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): You probably will never forget, but you can get over of whatever happened in your past. Talk about it with someone, get some help. You will always have your memories,but it will stop torturing you when times goes by. You can't change your past, what happened -happened. Don't be so hard on yourself.
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