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We're both virgins and he's dying to have sex, but I'm not so sure.

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Question - (11 November 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 and he tells me he is a virgin but he does not act like one. he asks me to have sex with him like 3 times a day or more and I don't know if im ready to have sex, I mean a guy has just put it in then it hurt too bad, so I told him to stop and my boyfriends dad does not like me so even if we did do it we would have nowhere to do it at. what should I do? plzzzzzz help. Love mrs unknown.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008):

Tell him you are not ready. And that he should stop pressurising you if he has real feelings for you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008):

Just tell him your not ready yet

and want to take it more slow

Hope i helped , x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008):

If you're sure you love him then do it...you know it's true that it hurts but not for long time just for a while...and if you're not sure that you love him just wait for the right guy

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008):

you are not a virgin if you have had a penis inside you.

As for your issue, well wait until you are both ready, do not be pressured and take things slowly.

Good luck x

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