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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I need some advise. I am very confused. There is this guy, which I really like. I moved to London in September and I met so many guys, but this guy I like is the only guy I have liked now in England. He is so different then the other guys, by different I mean by behavior, etc.We used to chat a lot over phone and flirt,etc. I really enjoyed it. Then one of our mutual friends who likes me said some things about me to the guy I like, some stupid things, which are not true. SO, the guy I like stopped talking that much to me,etc. And of course now I do not talk to the guy who ruined everything.Anyway, the guy I like and I started talking again, and I'm very sure he knows I like him. But he plays hard to get, which is actually good, but I don't know what to do to be honest. Also, I always catch him looking at me when I don't look at him!My friends think he likes me because he keeps on looking at me constantly, and when I look back he looks somewhere else. He is very shy as well, forgot to mention. It is hard to meet up with him I think because he may be shy and he also goes very often boxing so he doesn't have that much time.Then, last night after the gym, I went to this shop where his cousin works, and i was just talking to him relaxed,etc. Although his cousin used to like me, but I told right away I don't want anything with him. However, the guy I like, his friends were there. And apparently his two friend told him 'Oh I think she has a thing with your cousin', so he texts me asking me, and I explained him how I don't have anything with him and I do not like him and how I already told him etc. And he was like 'alright'. Anyway, does anyone have any advise what to do? I really like him. And I would love to spend some time with him etc. But not sure what to do anymore. He is very hard to get, and I think this is my first time I am trying for a guy. Please help me.Thank you!
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reader, Dayzy  +, writes (17 January 2013):
What female reader, blond 30s said. Same.
But I'll add chill out. You'll ruin it by being desperate. Ask him out and relax.
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