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writes:Alright, my name is "D". Me and this girl used to date a long time ago back when we first started talking everything seemed to be going fine and it was. After maybe a month of getting to know each other we started dating and i thought that she would be the one for me. Well a couple of weeks later i kinda seemed to be getting bored with the relationship but i thought it was natural so i just ignored it but after a while it just seemed to be getting worse i would never call her or answer her calls as much, i never really took her out much to sum it all up i was pretty much just being a dick. Well i paid for after a month of dating she broke up with me and she said that it would be better if we stayed friends. I know what i did was wrong and i don't deserve a second chance but i didn't know what i had until it was gone and now i'm finding it hard to get her off of my mind and want a chance to sit down with her and tell her how i feel but i just don't know how to go about it. I could really use ALOT of help because i she is the one that i need.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (1 April 2009):
 yeah i agree with Rob you're not that into her at all.
you want her now only because she has called it all off you want something you can't have.
she isn't the one you NEED! at all otherwise you wouldn't have been so mean to her.
you didn't want to tlk to her anymore.
you don't like the fact that she's not running around after you now.
you are gutted that now the tables turned and she's made you run after her.
face it she won't give you another chance and you don't want to be with her because you're just not that into her at all.
if you were you'd have always answered her calls and stuff.
but you never because you liked her chasing you and couldn't be bothered but now it's like you've got to chase and you don't like it.
i'd forget it just wait until you find someone you do like and will answer phone calls too rather than ignore.
Sorry but it's true.
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reader, enjoimx +, writes (1 April 2009):
 How DO you feel man? Be honest with yourself before talking to her. It may just be that your just not that into her which is FINE!! The fact that you dont return her calls or call her that much is just an indication that you arent that into her....SO BE IT!!! Who cares...your 18 or 19, WHATEVEER, FIND SOMEONE YOU ARE in to.....THAT willmake a huge difference...you will be so sure of yourself...i say dont waste your or her time anymore woth this relationship...they all dont work out, you have to be brutally honest with her and yourself it will help you both in the long run..So therefore, forget about this girl who you THINK you might be in to, and find a girl who you KNOW you are in to....Why waste both of your time with a half-assed relationship...there are plenty of fish in the sea, she has probably moved on anyway, your fine man just keep working out and improving yourself...you will be solid i guarantee it!Rob
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (1 April 2009):
Try to get together with her and have a serious talk and pour your heart out. Let her know that you were a jerk and didn't blame her for breaking up with you but you really want a second chance. Just tell her how you felt then and how you feel now. Also, if you're willing to do this then I'd let her know that you're going to be a better boyfriend than before and actually call her, take her out, and treat her right. Good luck.
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