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I told him that I do like him but that doesn't mean anything is going to happen

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Question - (1 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2009)
A female New Zealand age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi.I am happily married but am feeling very confused as i am concerned that a married man who i am friendly with may like me a little more than he should.

He has done things that make me think this such as being quite shy with me at times, and at other times when we are alone we will talk for ages about personal things. We had a misunderstanding about 6mths ago and we both were very upset about it.

He was recving txts he thought were from me,and replying to them, when in fact they were from someone else with the same name. A friend of his wife.When he realised the mistake he had made, he was so apologetic it was unbelievable.

This was when he said he thought i was pursuing him and that it was his vanity taking over. He never did tell me what the texts were about. I told him that i do like him but that doesn't mean anything is going to happen.

Sorry this is long. Any ideas about this?

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (1 April 2009):

eddie agony auntUnfortunately, because you know he has feeling for you it is a bit of a tricky situation. Once that card is played you know where he's coming from. As long as you're not giving him false hope and he is behaving it's not such a big deal. His wife might not agree though.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

"i do like him" means that i really enjoy his company and being around him. He makes me laugh, and i said that just because someone is married doesn't mean they can't have friends of the opposite sex.

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (1 April 2009):

eddie agony auntWhat dod you mean by "you like him" ? Can you expand on that?

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