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Why am I the one that always gets picked on???

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Question - (24 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2010)
A female Australia age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Every time I do something wrong i just get yelled at and mocked at. My sister does things wrong too, but my parents are always nice to her and when she does things wrong they just say " don't worry". And me? They yell and say " that's because you're too dumb". Howcome they do this? They don't even care about me- I'm like someone who doesn't exist in the family. I wish i could belong somewhere in the world.

I've always been behind my sister's shadow. Everyone in my family is always talking about how good she is and even my younger cousins look at her like a role model. When they come over, they rush over to where she is and give her hugs and talk and laugh. I just stand in a corner and stare at the computer. I have tried to talk and laugh with them, but they don't even listen or bother talking. It hurts a lot. She's like the family's pearl and I'm like hidden in a black hole, just waiting 'for someone to talk and be nice to me.

Everyone thinks my sister is a nice person and very kind-hearted, but in actual fact she treats me horribly. She orders me around and even yells and mocks me when i do something she doesn't do. I watch anime and she thinks its so funny, she goes and tells my tutor about how i just sit in front of the computer and watch anime all day. Seriously, she didn't have to do that. I just feel like dying sometimes you know? I'm always in the shadow.. i even talked to my mum and we got in a big argument because of this topic. I asked her " Why can't you think of my feelings? "

She only yelled and said," You're just a rude girl. If you bring up this topic again, I will not talk to you every again. "

Why does this have to happen to me? I'm a human being too; I have feelings; I'm not some object that is like iron.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010):

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she's older.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010):

Is your sister younger than you?

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