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*xloopyloo123xx
writes:I'm having a difficult time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 3 years now and I love him to pieces. However I miss the freedom and thrill of being single. I don't want to lose him as I love him so much but I'm not sure what to do. My boss and I are very fond of each other, (he also has a partner of 5 years) and he feels the same way, we've been talking and would love to have a 'friends with benefits' situation. Just a little bit of fun, where our partners wouldn't find out. I'm stuck cause I love my partner but my mind is going wild here as I'm loving the attention from my boss and I'm pretty sure my boss and I could easily have some fun... help? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2011): My friend was in your BF's position. He found out she was cheating when he got Chlamydia.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (3 December 2011):
 "Just a little bit of fun, where our partners wouldn't find out"
Trust me, it won't be just a bit of fun, and people often find out, especially if it's a guy from your work place.
I'm very confused, what type of love do you call it, when you go and sleep in someone else's arms, kiss them, let their penis enter your body, and then go back and do the same things with your boyfriend.
Funny type of love that... I love you, but I want sex with someone else, and I want to keep you, so I won't tell you anything...
Very, very strange...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 December 2011):
 If you love your boyfriend then do not cheat on him, if you do well then it is obvious you don't love him, because you will end up hurting him, and we do not hurt the people that we love by cheating on them!!! If you want to have some fun with your boss well then go ahead but make sure you end your relationship first, your boyfriend deserves better than you sleeping with your boss behind his back! You need to step back from this situation and ask yourself what you really want, its simple it is either your boyfriend or else single life where you can have a bit of fun with your boss and nothing else. Even discussing it with your boss at the moment is not fair on your boyfriend. He deserves better than that, so does your bosses partner.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (3 December 2011):
 if you don't want to lose him you should never go through with this boss thing. you've already crossed relationship and professional lines by engaging in these propositions with your boss, and if i were your bf would lose trust in you already. if you want the thrill of being single then it's time to be single once again. spare him the pain you're intending to cause by giving into lust.
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