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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My bf and I are both in our early 30s and have been dating for 4 months. Everything was going really well until a couple weeks ago when we had our first major argument. We made up but I think things have changed a little bit since. He used to be really into me, thought I was the most amazing person he's ever met, was talking about long term future. I've been noticing a little less enthusiasm in the past few days (shorter calls, fewer texts) and these past 3 days, he's hasn't been sending any texts during the day and has been only answering mine with short answers. He did call me last night (we see each other only on weekends because of the distance) but it felt like he was forcing himself to talk about stuff with me. I will be seeing him tomorrow. My question is, should I just leave it alone and pretend everything is fine or should I mention something about it? I'm wondering if maybe he just needs some space? help!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 December 2011):
 if something plays on my mind i have to say it...
if it's NOT fine you need to let him know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2011): When this happened to me, I said nothing. I was just the fun-loving girlfriend he enjoyed being with.... It took a bit of time, but soon the argument became history and forgotten. The arguement could still be a bit fresh on his mind. He may just need to be reminded that you are fun to be with, that you are kind and loving and that the argument was just a one-off (with actions not more words)
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