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writes:I think I know the answer to this but just need confirmation. I have been talking to this woman(long distance)for quite a few months now. We talk almost every day but she won't tell me certain things about her. She says she doesn't trust anyone but I'm getting the feeling it's just me. She will tell me about her sexual history, her ex-husband, and other intimate, private details of her life but she won't tell me things like her age, her maiden name, or her address (a Christmas gift I sent had to go to her work). Frankly, I could care less about the answers but the fact that she won't share really bugs me. I tell her everything but she can't share basic things with me.My question is basically should I be upset/worried about this or not? She has other friends that know these things about her, why not me? The other night she told me of a friend (guy) that flew into town and visited her a few months ago and she ordered a pizza. The fact that she had a guy over doesn't bug me as much as the fact that she told him where she lives and won't tell me.I know someone will say I should just go see her but I'm poor and can't afford to fly up there. Plus I told her once that I was coming up there and she hemmed and hawed and changed the subject. I can take a hint.Part of me is crazy about her but part of me feels that the sooner I bail on this relationship the better off I'll be. Somebody tell me I'm a fool please.
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