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writes: I met this great guy by total chance, and we hit it off right away. He was cute, built, and smart. We talked for hours and ended up doing more than just talking, if you catch my drift. I took off without catching his number or giving him mine, like a fool. I tried to find him again, but I never did. We were both visiting from out of town at the time. He was even from a neighboring state. Now, I'm back home, and so is he, and I have no way of finding him. I looked around the myspace website, but it's pretty tough when all you have is a first name and the state they live in. Now, I'm not normally one to get all obsessive. I've been in situations like this one before. Normally I can look back with a smile at the good time I had, but this time is different. I just can't get him out of my head. I don't know why, but he's always there. I've even dreamt of him. How insane is that? I feel completely crazy. Why is he on my mind so much? And how do I get him out of there? If there's no hope of finding him I ought to just move on, right? So why is it so hard? What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much, Emilysanswers! Your answer was really helpful and I really really appreciate it! I'm doing my best to move on and keep him a perfect memory. Thanks again.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 August 2008):
Well as it is you just had the perfect one night stand. In his head you are a perfect mysterious girl.
Tell yourself that if you'd really got to know him it would have all ended in tears and he would have turned out to be a jerk / have bad personal hygene or something. Leave him as a perfect memory and move on.
Flirt with someone today and try your best to focus on other things. I'm a strong believer in fate so you never know if you might bump into him again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (14 August 2008):
 sometimes there are those strangers you just meet who touch your life. i've been there, too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry, that was meant for DoubleM (aka Captain Obvious).
Thanks for your help superrrshawna. I guess it is just a lost cause that I'm just going to have to let go of. Easier said than done, though. I don't know why I'm being this way about it. It's really not like me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, I think I know that now. Thanks for nothing.
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (14 August 2008):
where did you meet? if it was at a hotel or activity place, they might have records of him that you might be able to bribe out of some romantic. if not, they might be able to play middleman matchmaker.
if not, sorry hun. ads in the newspaper? billboard? tv? other than that it sounds like he is a lost cause.
distract yourself with friends and new boys!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Next time you meet a mate like that, get the number.
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