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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:so i feel like i am so in love with my man after almost 3 years of dating. it feels like we are this old married couple. i do not have a ring yet and it worries me. i worry about our relationship everyday. sex has become less then it use to be, maybe once a week. i am scared he does not love me. i resent him for lying to me about looking for jobs when he was not even trying to look. i want to marry him and be his wife but i feel like it will never happen. my mother when to a physic who we have known to be right often, she told my mother that he would not be the man i would marry, that just worries me too. please help my worried mind, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (14 August 2008):
 i think about 3 years of dating is a good time to say you honestly love someone, and yes i can understand how after being with someone for that long you have maybe become stuck in a rut. maybe try going to new places, eating new things, doing things backwards some days to get the blood flowing! and if sex is especially becoming dull, what about new places, new positions, even new toys?
have you brought up the idea of a future together? kind of probed into how he feels about one?
resenting him for looking for a job seems like a very silly thing to get angry at him for. lying about money, girls... yes. this doesn't make much sense to me unless maybe you put it into context? lying is never good, but it doesn't seem like this particular lie is something you need to worry about!
and don't trust the psychic, take life into your own hands and live it day to day.
if he isn't the man you are going to marry, get excited about the one you will! because if you think you love this one, well heck, that one will swoop you off of your feet!
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