A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi...I've speaking to this boy for about a month now and we've only met up twice. The last time we met he text me asking to meet me in the week and I said yes and he said he'd let me know but he didn't. He sent me a snap on Snapchat and I asked him what day and he said Tuesday and we met and it was all fine. Then not last Sunday but the Sunday before he text me and asked to meet in the week and again I said yes but then I didn't hear from him all week. Then last Sunday I asked him to meet he said yes and made a bit of effort with conversation but I haven't heard from him again. He's a rugby player who plays for my city and does a lot of training in the week. So he's either lost interest or busy or doesn't want to look desperate because he wouldn't give a day the second time we met I had to ask him. Anyone have any ideas?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 March 2016):
 I agree.
Sorry, OP he is just not that into you. IF he were he would make more of an effort.
It's only been a month, not a big loss.
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (3 March 2016):
I would take it that this guy has lost interest (or wasn't really that keen in the first place) and move on. A guy who is really keen will make time to see you or at least be honest about when he can if he's very busy.
With internet dating, people are frequently meeting and conversing with multiple potential partners so perhaps that's part of the problem.
And even if it's just the rugby that's keeping him busy, you're clearly looking for a guy who can give you a bit more time than this guy can ...... so he isn't compatible with you.
Throw this one back in the sea.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (3 March 2016):
 I think you are wasting your time with this one. He is more interested in hanging out with the chaps than taking a little time off to be with you. Cut your losses before you start sounding desperate, and a topic for laughter in the changing rooms.
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