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reader, broncos4life55  +, writes (1 February 2009):
broncos4life55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thank you all you helped me alot and now i kinda know wat to do thank you
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reader, Dear Doris  +, writes (31 January 2009):
Write her a letter :o)
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (30 January 2009):
 Well I guess the only thing to do is for your girlfriend to come clean to her parents and tell them that it was her idea.. not yours and that you didn't want her to do it but she didn't listen... maybe they'll hear her out more and be more understanding and forgiving, and put that in the past to a better future.
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reader, broncos4life55 +, writes (30 January 2009):
broncos4life55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut the mom doesnt even want to talk to me. I had to buy my girlfriend a phone so I can be able to talk to her. My girlfriend's mom doesn't want to see me or hear from me but I love her daughter, I'll do anything for her and the mom doesn't believe me.
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reader, Dear Doris +, writes (30 January 2009):
Then you really need to talk to the parents and get them to see how the situation really is and that you dont want anything but good things for their daughter. It may be hard at first but worth persisting and this will show them you really do mean what you say :o)
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reader, broncos4life55 +, writes (29 January 2009):
broncos4life55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk me and my girlfiend were fighting, she had caught me talking to an old ex like we were planning on hooking up. She told me she forgave me and that no matter what I do she will always be with me, I was scared when this happend, I didn't want to lose her. I love her a lot, I can't live without her and I know she's the one. After the fight she said she wanted to get her mind off of the situation and she said she wanted to try that drug. I told her no but she said I had no say in it after what I did if I stopped her she would break up with me and that's the last thing I wanted so I let her do it.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Taking drugs of any kind is not cool, (I hope you're off them now). If you truly like this girl then I suggest you send the mother a short letter explaining what an idiot you were and apologising for being so silly and immature. Let her know that you know it will take a while to gain her trust back and that you no longer touch the stuff. Let her see by your ACTIONS that you have nothing but respect for her and her family and hope that she gives you another chance and in time can see that you truly are a man of your word.
~Eve~
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (29 January 2009):
you ned to have a heart felt talk with the parents and tell em how you feel.. how sorry you are and how much you want to be with their daughter.. explain yourself to them..apologize
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reader, Dear Doris +, writes (29 January 2009):
This is a tough one....I know all teenagers go through experimental phases..but it doesnt make them right.I dont know much about the x drug but it doesnt sound good....as other drugs arent. Why did you take it in the first place? was this a mutual thing or did you suggest and she just followed? As a mother no one wants their daughter to be taking drugs and would ultimatly stop it for the duaghters safety? Do you love this girl or do you want someone to do these things with?? I know everybody is responsible for their own actions but young girls are very impressionable....do you have her best interests at heart?? Think carefully about this and if yes then stop the sneaking around and talk to her mother face to face...explain why you did what you did and if you have no intention of doing this kind of thing again tell her so...treat her with respect and her daughter and maybe in time she will see you for the good and not the mistake you made. Good luck :o)
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