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writes:I don't know whether I should feel bad or not. Like...I was seeing this guy and and I like him. He's so nice to me. The 1st few days of us being together was perfect. Then he disappeared. Like I don't know exactly where we stand because we haven't spoken about breaking up or anything. and and I'm sad. The other night one of my guy friends came to my house really late. and and he's been known to have feelings for me. Well....one thing led to another and and he fingered me. Like, that sexùal tention that has been there for years finally bùrst. Well now I feel bad because I don't know why exactly I did it. I still have feelings for the guy that I was seeing. I feel ashamed and and I feel like a whore. I don't know why but it feels like if I'm betraying him because we haven't talked about our statùs. Agh, what should I do?I'm so lost.I know I did a mistake. I know I did and and there's no point to anyone pointing it out for me because I know. Now this guy friend of mine that I messed around with is calling me.I don't want to pùt his hopes high but agh...I don't know what to do.Please help me.I'm a wreck right now.I can't eatI can't sleepI can't focùs in school or work. Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 I agree, take it slow with this new guy. It sounds like the other guy may have not had a status at all. If there's no communication, just fun for a while, then no contact, it sounds as you said, just seeing each other, possibly a "non" committed fling.
The lack of contact shows there really isn't anything there to hold on to and wasn't anything there when you were with this other guy.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (2 October 2007):
Go slow with the new guy you like. How long did he disappear and why? Expect the other guy to come back for more. Tell him you're not likely to go that far again for awhile. Maybe he'll be the one you like best.
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