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I married him so I wouldn't lose my best friend, but I don't want to kiss him

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Question - (12 May 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2010)
A female Ghana age 36-40, anonymous writes:

It may not seem serious to u, but am desprate... He is everything any woman whould want in a man, he loves me so much. I have known him for 4years now... We got married last year, I married him not b/cos I love him,but b/c am use to him, he's my best friend and I don't want to lose him...I told him with time I'll start kissing him, for 4yrs now, I still can't do it. Rather,I keep imagining having a one night stand with another man...Not that I don't like to kiss, I love it...pls tell me what to do ......

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A male reader, True United States +, writes (14 May 2010):

Mabe you just havent made love with him for awhile? if so then seduce him. lol. And its obvious that you love him alot even if you imagine that sorta stuff, and its OK if you do aslong as you dont actualy act on that imagination

because you'd truly regret it emotionaly.

The kissing part is probualy feel sickened of the thought of doing it with some other man other than your husband and feels like you dont deserve to kiss him. But resisting to not kiss your husband the way you described can only hurt you more and may cause you to imagine that sorta stuff more... so just think of your husband(the person that makes you happy)and kiss him.

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