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"I love you, but relationships are complicated." What does this mean?

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Question - (10 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

When I admitted my feelings to my friend his response was, "I love you.. *pause*.. but relationships are complicated."

Is there hope in a relationship?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010):

It's always good to have a friend you can turn too and he maybe loves you as a friend but feel once you cross a line theres no going back and i can relate to this its best to have a friend to always turn to then to turn to them for other things and it dont work out and you no longer have them at all. so somethings are best left alone then messed with.

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A female reader, Advice Giver  United States +, writes (11 January 2010):

Advice Giver  agony auntYes, there is, with some people they like someone, or interested/attracted to, but they have somewhat of a commitment issues, or they don't want a relationship at the moment. So all you can do about it to be who you are or show him who you are, and hope that things will fall into place, and it may not be the result that you wanted.

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A male reader, softtouchmale2003 United States +, writes (10 January 2010):

softtouchmale2003 agony auntSounds like you have a loyal, loving friend who's afraid to go the extra step. Perhaps he values your friendship more than complicating it with a love affair.

It would seem difficult to understand but once you've reached a certain level of intimacy with another person, there seems to be an invisible line crossed. And its hard to maintain a friendship when you're heart's broken by your own friend.

Which is why relationships are complicated. He's gun shy.

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