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writes:The guy I like likes me. That is a fact. We like each other a lot. One little problem. He has a girlfriend. They have problems that at this point are rather unfixable. It seems they'll stay together until the end of the school year. So even though he likes me I'm not with him. I don't know how to manage this. I understand that it would be painful for them to break up and then have to see each other during school(they have a lot of the same classes)every day. But if she can go, they'll go to prom together and that really bites. The whole thing is really weird. Is that even realistic that we might be together at the end of the year? I don't get it. They like each other but they don't and things are crazy. I need some imput on the situation b/c I'm kind of confused. Thanks for your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): Whatever you do, don't let this guy have you whilst still being with his girlfriend, that's not fair on either you or his current girlfriend, and personally, i don't care for cheaters, but thats just me.
Tell this guy that if he wants you, he should break up with his girlfriend and be with you, if not, then i would say it's not worth it, why be with someone if they don't know they want to be with you? Not worth the hassle.
Even though breaking up with his girlfriend would be painful for him, if he wanted to be with you that much, he would do it if you asked, that's how you'll know what he wants.
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reader, Advice Giver +, writes (11 January 2010):
 Damn you should be CONFUSED?!?! If you both likes each other, and he's with HER, and can't make a decision,what do you think? I think you should just let it go, or move on for now until he makes his decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): boys are complicated. I have this problem myself. And there is a chance you will be together. But if it will last is a different question. He may have bipolar love with her, but when she's out of his life he might grow to miss her. One major thing to remember is to not rush him to do anything. When he knows what he wants he'll figure out how to get it and try to get it. If you rush him out of it he won't be ready to give her up. And when you get together with him that might mean some issues with cheating and flirting. And also, don't let him get what he wants with both of you at the same time. In other words, don't let him cheat on her with you. Tell him if he wants you enough then he can work and wait for it. The thing about high school is that all teenagers don't see much past school. Boys to us are the beginning and the end of the world. But really it's neither. They just take a seat right next to you for the ride. And when they leave, sooner or later another one will be sitting by your side. So don't stress it! And don't let it control your life.
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