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writes:I'm second year high school and I'm in love with my English teacher. He's 7 years older but that doesn't matter to me. My mom knows about it but we never talked about it. I transferred to another school because my mom was mad being with this teacher. I'm so in love with him. We have same likes and dislikes. That's why I'm so much in love with him. Some people say that it's only infatuation. But I think it's not. I love him just the way he is because he is the guy I've been looking for. He's nice, intelligent, music inclined, knows how to cool me down, has a nice handwriting, has the ability to strike an intellectual conversation and a movie and music buff. I don't think if he's in to me TOO like I do but he shows some motive. Like having conversation with him everyday even though I'm not at their school already. texting me with sweet stuffs. I know that he's inlove with someone but I dunno if I can accept that fact. But still we have communication. How I wish that I could tell how much I love him. Can you please give me some advice? Thanks in advance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011): I'm sorry but I'm going to have to disagree with you. How do you know that you're not infatuation with him? I see that it is a strong infatuation with your teacher. If you find yourself in a position that will never work, it's best that you move on. You HAVE to move on because he'll never see you as a romantic interests. You do realize that if he is in a relaitonship with you (which means he ABUSED his power), he'll get fired and your parents have the right to place lawsuit against him for almost anything. Young lady, I do not mean to insult you but you NEED to think of the consequences. You are 13-15 and he's 21-23.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): Hi, youngandrestless! Thanks for the advice! I'm still hoping for it. I want him so much. He makes me happy more than anyone could. Thanks! Thanks! I don't want to move on. I want to wait for him. I'm like obsessed with him. If the Lord won't give him to me, I hope the Lord will give me to him. Thanks!
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 oh darlin, this is going to be a hard road for you, but you need to accept the fact that he is not romantically interested in you. if he has another woman he is in love with, you need to leave it at that. i know you feel you are in love with him, but he is not in love with you. and if you tell him your feelings for him, it is only going to hurt you both. i dont expect you to like this reply, or even to listen to it, because i know you want people to tell you that you are right, that its ok for this relationship to happen, but i cant tell you that. im not going to tell you to move on and date a high schooler, i knwo that boys tha age can be idiots, but looking to an older man, especially a teacher, is not the way to go. he may enjoy flirtin with you, wich is wrong, but yoiu need to be the better person, and end whatever you have between you. once you are out of high school ( i know it seems like too far away, but it will come soon) then you can start to pursue this interest, IF it still exists, but right now, focus on being young and having fun! hang out with girlfriends, go to movies and go shopping, heck flirt with some guys!!! but do not look into this relationship for more than it is, or can ever be.
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