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writes:I don't think I actually have one question, and it's not really a problem just I like to hear other peoples stories and options on things. You see the thing is at the moment I have no, real girl friends. So I really don't have anyone to talk to. I HAVE TONS, of guy friends but I share them all with my boyfriend. And I feel horrible cause I am only 16 and I know me and him are probably not going to be forever, but he really is the only person I completely trust. He trusts me too. Some times I think we are to comfortable with each other. We haven't even ever fought .... ever.... like we have problems ... there was time he was thinking of breaking up with me, there's times i have problems with how he is acting .... but we talk it out. And it scares me to know that when ever we aren't together anymore, I am only going to have our mutual friends .... I don't make friends with girls easily but I don't want to only rely on my boyfriend and make him the only one I can trust . Any advise ? Comments Please....xox Reply to this Question
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reader, Over..worried. +, writes (5 August 2010):
Over..worried. is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks the only thing I have different is the guys that I am friends with and so is he is because i've been hanging out with them for ever .... they really are my best friends not because of him more like he's my boyfriend because we were friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): Hi,
The same exact thing is happening to me, except a few more years down the road...Now I'm 20.
I had friends in high school. They were amazing friends, but I stopped hanging out with them as often because my boyfriend wouldn't hang out with them, too, and we all drifted apart. So, I started hanging out with my boyfriend and his friends only, and now...4 years later, I have absolutely NO girlfriends, just girl acquaintances. Only guy friends, who I'm friends with BECAUSE of my boyfriend. I regret it so much...especially because my boyfriend and I almost broke up yesterday. I realized I had no friends to go to or talk to. My boyfriend is my best friend...my only true friend that I made on my own. It's sad, really.
My advice to you is: Stay with your boyfriend if he makes you happy...but really really try to get out and make girl friends. Trust me, they're something that you don't realize you need until you're left with no one. Plus, even if your boyfriend is your best friend, and you're totally comfortable with him, having a girl to talk to is different.
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