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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I need advice... I am currently engaged, and Yes, I do love my fiance very much. me and my fiance has been together for 4 years now and engaged 1 year. The thing is about a year ago i got in contact again with my ex whom I really loved a lot. I still love him a lot. We've been in contact for a year and a half only on line (Skype). The thing is, he has a boy now 18 months old with another woman (they just recently broke up about 1 month ago) and i have a 6 month old boy with my fiance.... Me and my ex were in contact for so long, that we just decided to see each other, when we saw each other our old feelings for each other just got more intense and stronger. I know it is wrong to feel this way about someone else while being engaged to my fiance, my boy's father, but it is as if I just can't help feeling the way I do about my ex. I really loved him and always thought about him after we broke up, but since we broke up and completely lost contact, and after I met my fiance, i really thouht that I was over him, until I got in contact with him again and now when we saw each other after all these years again for the first time. My ex says he really does still love me and would love for us to have a future together, but he also said that he understands i love my fiance and I must do what is right for my little boy, and i know that, and i really do love my fiance, but i also love my ex very much... Please can you just give me some advice to help me figure out what to do?
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Why ruin two families for something you once had
You broke up for a reason right?
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reader, Ed1337 +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Pleaseeeeee don't get back together with your ex, he is your ex for a reason, so why ruin what you have with your fiance? He is your past now, not your future.
Men seem to have a habbit of wanting their ex back as soon as they finish with their current piece of skirt. My girlfriend's ex contacted her last week, because he wants to get back together with her and now she can't decide what to do and things are really crap for everyone caught up in the mess :(
Don't let him brain wash you, especially if you broke up for a good reason last time.
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