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writes:I have been in a realationship with a guy since 7 months. We both love n care for each other truly. I am very happy bieng engaged with him. . . But there's a new problem coming up. Before this relationshp, i had an ex boyfrnd. That time i broke up with him with the issue that he dsn't luv me nymre and is ignorin me. Now we are just good friends. But nowdays, he has started developing love for me again. He knows about my new boyfriend, then too he proposes me every single day and says that i had always been his love. . . Now my problem is, i too am unwillingly getting attracted to him. I am not able to reject his proposal directly. Still now, i can feel love and affection for him deep inside my heart. But i am happy with my present boyfriend. And, i know that i love him and care for him. . . Both these feelings have created confusion in my mind. I can't understand what to do and what's happening with me. Plz help!!!
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reader, LovelyLemon  +, writes (25 January 2012):
 Sounds like your ex is jealous and is finally seeing what a gem he passed up! You're obviously quite a catch.I think it's extremely awesome that you and your ex have had the ability to remain friends, as this is very difficult for most people to do. My best advice, though, is to cut contact with your ex if you have intentions of staying with your current boyfriend. He is trying to tempt you back into his arms, possibly only to get you away from your new love. He may then fall out of love again. His behavior is not to be trusted.If you are truly in love with this fellow you've got now, be true to him and stay away from the jealous ex. Being around him will only complicate things.Much love and Best wishes
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2012): I think your ex-boyfriend is jealous of your present relationship. I don't know if he truly loves you or not or just can't see you with new boy but your love for both of the guys gonna create a big problem. Either you have to choose or leave one. You can't get both of them.
If you don't want to regret in future think clearly who's gonna be the perfect bride for you. It's about your life not a childish game.
You can discuss your problem with your closest friend too.
Good luck.
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