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writes: This is how my life goes, I am deeply inlove with someone and he feels the same. we have a long distance relationship. We meet from time to time and both of us are okay with that. I love this guy so much that even words cannot explain how i really feel. He says that he feels exactly the same. He has a high profile job and he travels a lot with in the country and also outside of the U.S.I am hurting becasue he doesn't call me enough and I would send him emails all the time and he hardly ever send me any.He works all day and sometimes all night. He is constantly talking to business people and hardly have the time to talk to me.I am hurting so badly that I actually feel the pain in my heart. What can I do ? should I try to forget him ? I love him so very much but He also hurts me so much. I don't know how to forget him, to me he is like my soulmate. I am being foolish ? He would ask me to send him mail and even steamy ones, he would acknowelege that he has gotten them and would just love them. But he never emails me and I am so loney and I miss him like hell. I wish I knew how to stop feeling hurt, I wish that this pain would go away. Can someone just talk to me.......please !
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 I know exactly how you are feeling hun.
My boyfriend now has a full time job and he lives about 12 miles away from me, and I get to see him at least twice a week, so I can relate to how you feel to some point. It hurts to not be around the person you love. Sometimes you just want to be with them all the time. But he has a career now and a rather busy one so it sounds. Mayve the option of asking him if you two could move in together would make things much more easier and more possitive about things. He can not help having to travel all the time for his job becuase that is what he has been asked to do.
Hang out with friends more and ask him in your emails to reply back becuse u feel lonely and want his response to you.
I am possitive things will work out in the end for both of you
Good luck
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reader, DV1  +, writes (1 June 2007):
 Loving someone means accepting their lives, and what baggage may come with it. He works a lot, but if you love him, you'll work around it. If you're aching for him that badly, why not suggest moving in together. If you're both happy with the possibility of waking up to each other, and seeing each other at the end of the day, try that direction. Falling in love with someone is something special, and taking a chance is sometimes the best action. If you're not ready to take that step, try going to dinner during his break... I know it may sound like you're doing a lot more work than him, but if you love him, he may be inspired to do the same thing.
Best wishes,
DV1
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (1 June 2007):
 i no that u are hurting so much and u have tried talkin 2 him and u have long distance but if it is killing u inside and ur not happy. but with love sometimes u r willing to give up ur life to be with them but its up 2 u think if it this way r u willin 2 go through this 4 the rest of ur life for all u no he could be cheating it doesn't seem so good. but whatever you chose i hope u wil be happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): what's your history with him? do you know each others' families, friends? if not, well then, you are obviously in a rut. sorry, but i feel like this guy is bad news. find a friend or two, go out have a great time, get over him. he is using you, probably married or involved with someone else.
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