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*nitha_Sbk
writes:we both are from same college,same department.I was very studious during college days.Even though we were in same class,i never knew him until our exam results got published.It was he who scored two marks more than me and pushed me back to second position.I was bit annoyed by the result.Unlike other guys he was completely different.In deed i was also different from other girls in our class.When i lost my maths note,i was forced to get his notes cos no one else used to take notes in our class. It was when i got impressed by seeing first page of his note where he has written"impossible itself says am possible y cant u?". His handwriting is very cute like himEven though i liked him very much, i was afraid to talk with him with the fear of getting attractedto him. I used to observe him with out his knowledge.We both started to talk after college days. Luckily i had his number, he too. We used to textwhich continued for three years.I continued to pursue higher studies,while he joined in a reputedorganisation.After i completed higher studies i joined an organization. Every day we started fighting with each other for small reason but soon it will end upor i will get compromised and start speaking to him again.Many times i have cried, been avoided.still i was not able to stop text him. Whenever i had issues in my work life, it was he who used to guide me.he never expressed his affection on me,but i was able to understand and feel it.And that might be the reason, i was able to continue friendship with him despite many a timeshe hurted me. he always been very honest and very true.Those truth which he spoke have even hurted me. but at the same time i like the way he is. I started to accept him the way he is.He had his own rules and he expects others shld not indulge in it.But when he feels that i get hurted by it. he tried to change himself for me.When he went abroad for his work, we hardly used to text. but mail very frequently. often chat duringweek ends.We used to share everything.Unfortunately, i was not able to talk with him for two weeks, which made me mad.i realised that it was love, i proposed him knowing very well that he will deny it.He said it wont work out but he obeys my feeling. but he wish to marry a girl of his parent's wish.We had many conversation on it and he started to behave rude and told me "Lets depart".At last i stopped text and mailing him as he wished.He is ready to help me even now in my professional and personal life as a gud friend..It was two weeks i stopped communicating with him.I cant forget him.Some where deep in my heart, it says, he is my man. Still i love him.....Still i love him despite lots of hurtingsAm not sure whether he loves me or not? How can i ensure that?
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reader, Anitha_Sbk +, writes (25 June 2011):
Anitha_Sbk is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMay be you are true. I stopped having contact with him
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 I think that he loves you as a good friend, as someone who he can relate too intellectually, but, alas, not romantically.
But , even if I were wrong, ... what's the point in pursuing this guy and finding out his feelings ?
He told you : it can't work with you, he is going to accept an arranged marriage. Believe him. He seems a determined, assertive type- to the point of becoming rude and telling you openly to let him be.
Do as he says, as hard as it is now. Keep the no contact so you'll get over him sooner ,talking to him now would make you feel worse. Maybe, once you are over him and you have met some other guy, you can contact him again to rekindle the friendship. But right now, it's not wise.
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