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writes:Hey i was wondering when your in a relationship how do you deal with your boyfriend hanging out with a girl you dont like? Or a girlfriend hanging with a guy you dont like? My boyfriend knows i dont like her i dont becuase in the begging of our relationship she asked if they could do "stuff" my boyfriend says no but that was a year ago. Im the type of person that once you do some thing to make me not like you i wont ever like you till you give me a reason two. But i dont know how to act around my boyfriend im upset so should i act upset? or should i pretent nothings wrong? I think its worse for me because i have anxity issuies and have to take medication for it. Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): firstly , did you tell your boyfriend? that she said that i mean? i am in the same boat only the girl in my situation hit on my bf and tried to convince him to cheat he said no, and they are still friends. men huh! youd think they would get it , but they never do! you could get all upset, act out on it, which would make your bf feel like you dont trust him and sabotage your relationship. but he said no, showing his commitment to you. trust it. dont tell him it upsets you, or shout or anything like that. but tell him because of this you are feeling insecure and struggling with that emotion. that you would like him to reassure you a bit more.you can't tell people who they can be friends with. even bf/gf.but you can remind them how you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): Your boyfriend is being inconsiderate! Ask him how he would feel if you were to hang out with a guy who said that to you.
You need to let him know loud and clear that your concerned about him spending time with a girl who clearly has no morel compass.
If he refuses to co operate on the matter I would ask yourself do you want to be in a relationship with a man who values your feelings so low?
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