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female
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30-35,
*ebeccaa
writes: My ex boyfriend broke my heart and im still hurtinf so much from it, hes the only person i want no one could ever replace him, but he seems to so happy at the minute he keeps putting status's on facebook about how happy he is and how well his life is going.. and im the one suffering and wanting him back! What can i do about it?
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (14 September 2011):
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (13 September 2011):
Nothing. You have now broken up. The best thing to do is to delete him, cut all contact and begin to get over him. Time will help you-it really does. However, you won't get over him if you keep checking his profile updates.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011): I say to try to focus on something else for a while. Of course you are hurting, but you are also very young from what your age says. The world is a very big place with a lot of people in it.
I would say to step back and not think about him for a while. Get some new hobbies or focus on your schooling. Hang out with your other friends (any not associated with him if possible.) And be open to meeting new friends. Take some time to learn about yourself.
Follow the old saying "if you love someone let them go, if they don't come back it wasn't meant to be." It is very likely your relationship was not meant to be due to your age. But don't worry, you have a lot of life ahead of you to meet someone who will love you. Don't rush.
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