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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i made friends with this girl onlineand we got along so well on msn.then we went out on sunday.really had fun.started texting each othershe says she misses me and stuff.and when i asked her for the next date.she says she love to.. but her mom doesn't allow her to leave home.then she has this "BROTHER" 10 years older than herwhom she knows like 3 weeks ago.. and he asked her not to get into a relationship till 19..and she promised.now she's like telling me we should just be friends.and stuff.i agreed and texted her back with my heart hurting like mad.. cause i can't bear to.she said sorry to have hurt me and stuff.but i still can't put her away from my mind.i keep thinking of her.. and i really wanna be together with her..could someone give me advice!?i'm not approaching friends in school regarding this.it would hurt my band's reputation if it slowly spreads..BUT I REALLY LOVE HER.AND I KEEP THINKING OF HER.it's my first time in loved like this.god. someone help =/ thanks.
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reader, iloveheralot +, writes (7 June 2007):
 thanks loads for the advice.. =/
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Just keep doing what you're doing and enjoy what you have with her, even though it's not at the level you'd like for it to be. Maybe eventually her feelings for you will grow too. In the meantime, respect the boundaries and just be friends. It sounds like she's really not emotionally ready for romance. So give it some time. Things might change. But don't cut yourself of from seeing other gals who interest you either. Your friend may never develop the same feelings for you so keep that in mind too. I wish you the best. And P.S. There will be plenty of other gals in your lifetime that will fall in love with you. Don't sell yourself short.
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reader, Helen Help! :) +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Hey Huni
I dont think what your feeling is love it may feel like that but you really have to know someone inside out to love them im guessing and i dont mean this nasty but im guessing its more like an obsession your addicted to her i no what thats like weve all been there, the best thing to do is jus accept her wishes to be jus friends shes jus respecting her familys wishs and its best if you dont push her to be anything more other wise you may lose her as a friend. youll be ok you can either jus wait till shes 19 or youll find someone else and that will take your mind off her. Feel better soon :)
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