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anonymous
writes:hi just wondering what to do i love this girl very much but she doesnt want annyone to know about us only a few people know about us every time i go to school and sit around her its like hiting a brick wall in our relationship she tells me she loves me but if i say somthing that she does not like then it turnes into a fight which i hate because it makes me feel down and depresed and im always the one that has to say sorry and then she is angry and then she just turns the situwation aaround back onto me because its always my fault she also texts outher boys and stuff alot of her phone contacts are boys which really pisses me off because she says she only wants me bbut im not alowed to say anything because it will turn into a big fight
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): Hey man, any relationship where you can't voice your opinion without fear of conjuring up an altercation is not worth hanging onto. I know you probably like this girl a lot but she has taken so much control over the relationship that you're decision have almost be abolished. If you want people to know about the to of you tell her and if she ays no, ask her for a reason why not. If its not valid, give her an ultimatum;make our relationship public or end it because what's the point in dating someone who is ashamed of you To have tolerated this you must be a real nice guy so I with all the luck in the world homie...GOOOD LUCKK.
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reader, AlexCM  +, writes (3 September 2009):
i think its very unlikely that this relationship is going to work. clearly there's little trust and she's being selfish when you voice your opinion!
try talking to her once more and then ask your self why people cant know about you? there must be a reason and i very much doubt its a good reason!
i dont think you should be together.
hope all works out for sweety,
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): In my opinion, it sounds like she isn't worth it, but if you believe she is then just sit down and talk with her, tell her how you feel and that you dont want to fight.
There could be several reasons to why she doesnt want people to know you're in a relationship, for example, maybe she isnt ready to admit that she's a one guy girl, (i hate to say) she could be embarrassed or teased about liking you, you'll just have to see what she says, if it turns into another fight then you have to think about whether she is worth all of this or not
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