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I lose it when I put on a condom...

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Question - (17 February 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

how can i keep an erection when wearing a condom because any other time it is fine?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2007):

Are you cumming or just losing your errection? i dont get it.. if your just losing your errection try having her play with herself a bit while you put it on, then you wont be concetrating on the fact that your wearing a condom, you'll be more focused on "wow i cant believe shes doin that to herself, and in just a few seconds thats all mine!!!"

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A male reader, Dr. John United States +, writes (18 February 2007):

Dr. John agony auntSorry, something strange happened when I submitted my answer and it submitted more than once. Doc.

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A male reader, Dr. John United States +, writes (18 February 2007):

Dr. John agony auntThis may sound old fashioned but at your age you should really not be in need of condoms, but that is my view.

In reality the problem is quite common.

Quoting from new scientist: "The nervous excitement of sex with a new partner, paired with ill-fitting condoms and men’s lack of confidence in condom application can lead to high levels of erection loss, say researchers."

I have supplied the link to the website for you to check out. Hope it helps. Doc.

http://search.yahoo.com/search?ei=utf-8&fr=slv8-yie7&p=Lose%20erection%20when%20condom%20is%20used

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A male reader, Dr. John United States +, writes (18 February 2007):

Dr. John agony auntThis may sound old fashioned but at your age you should really not be in need of condoms, but that is my view.

In reality the problem is quite common.

Quoting from new scientist: "The nervous excitement of sex with a new partner, paired with ill-fitting condoms and men’s lack of confidence in condom application can lead to high levels of erection loss, say researchers."

I have supplied the link to the website for you to check out. Hope it helps. Doc.

http://search.yahoo.com/search?ei=utf-8&fr=slv8-yie7&p=Lose%20erection%20when%20condom%20is%20used

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A male reader, Dr. John United States +, writes (18 February 2007):

Dr. John agony auntThis may sound old fashioned but at your age you should really not be in need of condoms, but that is my view.

In reality the problem is quite common.

Quoting from new scientist: "The nervous excitement of sex with a new partner, paired with ill-fitting condoms and men’s lack of confidence in condom application can lead to high levels of erection loss, say researchers."

I have supplied the link to the website for you to check out. Hope it helps. Doc.

http://search.yahoo.com/search?ei=utf-8&fr=slv8-yie7&p=Lose%20erection%20when%20condom%20is%20used

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A male reader, Dr. John United States +, writes (18 February 2007):

Dr. John agony auntThis may sound old fashioned but at your age you should really not be in need of condoms, but that is my view.

In reality the problem is quite common.

Quoting from new scientist: "The nervous excitement of sex with a new partner, paired with ill-fitting condoms and men’s lack of confidence in condom application can lead to high levels of erection loss, say researchers."

I have supplied the link to the website for you to check out. Hope it helps. Doc.

http://search.yahoo.com/search?ei=utf-8&fr=slv8-yie7&p=Lose%20erection%20when%20condom%20is%20used

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A female reader, luvme247 United States +, writes (17 February 2007):

luvme247 agony auntBelieve it or not it is really common & is actually due to anxiety. Sometimes if you have your partner put the condom on you, stimulating you by hand as she does will fix the problem. Some people have to seek counceling to try & diminish their anxiety in sexual situations.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007):

i dont fully understand your question. Are you embarrased? You shouldnt be, with the assortment of condoms out there now its rather fun experimenting with them all. Make sure your confortable though, if the condom is uncomfortable then dont get wound up or upset about it. Ask your girlfriend to help you, joke about it when it happens and take it off and try again later. :)hope this helps x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007):

get your erection put the condom on and get a cock ring and put it on that should do the trick

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A male reader, azzarspazzar United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2007):

azzarspazzar agony auntmaybe you should try to masturbate before putting it on. alturnitivly you could let the women put on a femidom.

if you want to talk more please contact me.

aaron

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