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writes:im 15 years old and look at porn. i masturbate of it and everything but i feel really disgusted after. AM I NORMAL? my boyfriend thinks its hot, so is it just me that thinks its kinda freaky and disgusting..? helppp!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): I look at porn, and I still act the same way I did when I didn't. I'm a guy, but I think it's okay for girls and boys alike to look at something they enjoy. Don't think you aren't normal because of it. In my opinion, that's attractive; to be open with yourself.
But be careful because there are some real jerks out there, too. Just do what comes naturally to you. Best wishes.
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reader, MissUnique  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 Seriously, don't freak out over this. It's completely normal. Some guys think it's only alright for them to do it but when we bring up the subject..OMG! SHOCK! HORROR! :) But even your bf understands so do whatever you want to. And don't think you're a freak. You're far from it.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (22 November 2008):
your normal. yes us girls look at porn as well. there's no harm in it, as long as you dont become obssessed with looking at it and find you'd rather stay in with porn then go out with friends. but don't worry, if it turns you on then enjoy it. as for the comment about internet pron does not help with understanding a sexual relationship,etc...we don't use porn to get turned on by the joys of a relationship. it;s simply to see some hot guys and girls. nothing more to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): You are certainly "normal", anon. It is normal to be both curious and aroused by sexual material. But, I would not suggest internet or other porn for your best education or interest. You are not getting the healthiest of vibes from it...and sex should be healthy. The porn is very staged and deals only with the anatomical and mechanical part of sexuality. A healthy sexual relationship is so much more. I think you are mostly curious, now. That is perfectly normal. Just don't get hung up on this stuff. It really tells you very little about that wonderful thing we have called sexual attraction...and real love and emotional involvement. I think you are still too young to consider being sexually active with another person just now. You would probably find it even a bit disappointing. Most do. I would wait until you are ready and able to have a mature relationship. This comes at different times for different people but, when you are ready, you will know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): Sweetie it's perfectly normal. It seems to be accepted that men can do it but not us ladies. I assure you it is nothing to be ashamed of xxx
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reader, lady buggggie  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 oh honey no its very normal to play with yourself . and do NOT feel gross because everyone in this world have tryed it i dont care what they say its true. and it is way better to play wit ur self then to have sex at your age!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008):
I assure you that you are normal. Your type of question comes up here regularly on the website. Some people do feel dirty or ashamed after looking at pornography. A lot of the time it has to do with upbringing and is influenced by religion, but not always. Also in terms of sexual maturity, you are still very young, and have many years to go to develop and explore this side of yourself. It may be that when you are a bit older you will be comfortable with it, but even if you aren't, it will never mean there is anything wrong with you.
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