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writes:Well, a year ago, I lived in Australia. I went to a nice school. I had a crush on a chick there. I would have asked her out, but she had already shut down about 12 guys. So, in order to stand a better, chance, I became her friend for 2 years. But then I had to move to America, but I stayed in touch via myspace. Then, she dropped out of contact for about 2 months. She talked to everyone except me. The last thing she said made it sound as if she was suspicious that I liked her. Worried, I called her and told to her to tell another girl I liked her. She sounded all disappointed, and kept saying "weird."I think she might have thought I liked her, and liked that feeling. Now, I don't know what to do. Should I:Make her jealousPretend as if tho nothing has happenedOr tell her I like her?but i still wanna keep her a s a friend. what if she decides, "hell no, im not talking to this guy anymore?"
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (23 June 2007):
 Talk to her over the phone or over instant messenger.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay, now what do i do?
If i tell her i liked her, and she...does whatever and doesn't reject me, we still live in different countries.
Not to mention, i don't know how to tell her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay, now what do i do?
If i tell her i liked her, and she...does whatever and doesn't reject me, we still live in different countries.
Not to mention, i don't know how to tell her.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (21 June 2007):
Tell her you like her. Ok it does risk loosing her but you will look back and ask yourself what if???
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe came back in contact and acted as tho nothing happened. Im in two mindseither i tell her now and risk losing heror i don't, wait a while for the relationship to increase and then tell her.
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reader, Gem86 +, writes (14 June 2007):
 Ahh this is why playing games isnt a good idea. hehe. I would definately suggest that you don't try to make her jealous. Ive had someone try that with me and to be honnest it was irritating and ended up costing our relationship.
But you need to think about where you go from here. If you genuinely want a relationship with this person you need to start being honnest. Or at least stop playing games. If you want something to happen youre probably going to tell her how you feel. She might reject you, you might end up together! Seems like you should think about taking a chance.
I really hope it works out for you! Take care xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): Alright, hold on for a minute. You need to figure out exactly what you want out of this relationship. If all you want to do is date this girl, then I'm afraid that ship has probably already sailed. Without knowing more about this girl, I can't tell you for sure, but it sounds to me like she's very picky. If you're not the guy she's looking for, no amount of waiting or planning is going to help you.
Now if you really like this girl enough to inot/i date her, then you have to man up and be honest with her about your feelings. Tell her how you feel, and what you want, and then let her decide what to do. As much as it pains you, this is her decision, not yours. Regardless of what happens, she'll respect you for your honesty, and maybe she'll start talking to you again. If she doesn't, then she's not worth it.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (13 June 2007):
Explain to her that you do like her, and not play games, but tell her that your friendship you have with her is important to you and you dont want to loose her as a friend. You just had to be honest about your feelings.
Good luck
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