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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i really need help. i really fancy a boy and im not sure if he actually does like me, he flirts with me and kisses me at random moments, sometimes holds my hand. and were not even going out. He also keeps asking me to have sex with him alot, i did have sex with him, he still kisses me and that but he keeps winding me up about it and gettin flirty with other girls. i just feel like he just used me, i dont want it to be true but i need to here someones oppinion i dont know what to do x
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (10 September 2008):
 Sweetie this guy is using you when he wants sex or wants attetnion and you are letting him.Please dont give into him anymore you are better then that just say no and walk away dont let him use you anymore because you are the only one who is going to get hurt.
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reader, rainbowcupcakes  +, writes (10 September 2008):
you made a big mistake. Dont ever give in to guys you really like to have something serious with you. Guys dont like easy chicks, they have fun with them. Maybe im being a little harsh. But you made the wrong decision. Maybe you should try not to flirt with him and dont have sex with him again. Maybe just maybe, he'll see your not that kind of girl and he'll grow interested in you in another way. If that doesn't happen, then just take it as a lesson.
Remember, guys like women who don't give in, hard to get and who they know they can trust. You showed him that guys can get u easy, and they dont like to think that the woman they love can go sleep with other men in just seconds.
be careful!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (10 September 2008):
 He likes picking you up and putting you down. The power gives him a buzz. But unless he is way older than you, its very unlikely he is ready for anything serious, and likes to play the field.
Best thing is to not hand sex to someone on a plate. Wait til you are in a long term relationship where you both have a mutual respect for each other. Thats means not based on guess work.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): Wow....this guy is defenately using you..He's so using you. you shouldent have had sex with him..by doing this you have succumbed to his desires and not yours. he's now flirting with other girls obv shows that he's not a serious guy and very shabby too.
i think you should move on. please do it's for your good,trust me. and your only 14-15.
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