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anonymous
writes:dear cupid,i really like this guy and i'm too nervous to say anything to him because i don't wanta screw up. what should i do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Just be yourself, go up to him and spark up a conversation with lots of smiling and eye contact. Don't reherse what you are going to say before hand as invariably look like you are trying to hard.
You will find that the conversation will be flowing naturally, then casually ask him if he wants to go grab a coffy or something.
All the best of luck x
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reader, AskEve +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Like CD said go up to him and say hi, if you've seen him around before say "I've seen you around before, (if he's at school) what year are you in? Are you enjoying school? etc. Mention the weather, the time, what's he doing this weekend, You like his... jumper, jacket, badge, hat... whatever! He'll soon start chatting. If you think you're not getting anywhere then ask him for the time and when he gives it say "gee, I didn't realise, I must run, nice talking to you" and leave, simple! ;o)
Next time you see him he might come up to you and begin a conversation. Nothing lost nothing gained!
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (11 February 2007):
 I reckon u just need to build up to it. Start by saying hi and smiling. It's just one word! Maybe he'll even take the initiative to start chatting after that but even if he doesn't you can build up to have a good day/evening etc and soon into fully blown conversations. Just take it slow.
CD
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