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I like this girl a lot and don't know what to do for the best.

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Question - (10 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2007)
A male Russian Federation age 36-40, *uter1 writes:

I'm confused and don't know what to do?

The story is like this, I have a job, and on this job I'm teaching people how to learn and play a sport I'm like a coach. So I play with important people. This past weeks, one of the clients brought a girl she is 2-3 years younger then me and I began teaching her. So she is very cute, we even went on some dates together, I didn't want to make a relationship with her. So we met like friends. Then it became serious, and on one of the dates we kissed, (we didn't have sex) so after that I had some feelings for her.

After 2 weeks of seeing her, that person told me, that she wants that me and that girl to stay just best friends for some reasons: she doesn't want that I lose my clients after breaking up with her, and my reputation can be broken. Because after that girl came to me, I had a lot of important people who came at my lessons, and my financial position became better.

But I like a lot that girl, and I don't know what to do, because she is only 20 and I know very well after a break up nobody becomes friends... (it's very rare)

please help me with this situation thank you

P.Sorry for my english, I made my best.

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A male reader, luter1 Russian Federation +, writes (11 November 2007):

luter1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

luter1 agony auntthank you)i hoped to have more answers but thanks or that))

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A female reader, whiteshadow United Kingdom +, writes (10 November 2007):

whiteshadow agony auntgood luck by the way x

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A female reader, whiteshadow United Kingdom +, writes (10 November 2007):

whiteshadow agony auntWe all have to take a risk if we truely want something. You have to think hard about which you would rather gain.. relationship or your career. Theres no way you can have both inless you carry on dating her secretly but be open and honest and tell her why

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