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writes:I have these friends let's call one S and H. S introduced me to her friend who was also friends with H's crush and we all hung out and had fun and I treated him no different from how I treat them... then we hung out again an H told me before that she had a crush on the guy S introduced me to so I told him trying to put in a good word and we were all laughing and having fun. Then H kept saying flirt much in a bitchy way and I didn't know why coz I was treating him like everyone else then he broke his arm and I felt bad so I did act all worried but hey he broke his arm how am I supposed to feel?Then he told me S and H were treating him differently and were mad at me so we all talked an S said they weren't mad at him they were only mad at me and I asked why and they said coz I flirted with him and they kept going on about it and basically called me a hoe. I was mad coz I would never do that to my best friend, I know she likes him, I did forgive them coz they did say sorry and other stuff but now I find myself starting to like him and I don't know what to do coz they got mad at me for thinking I was flirting when I wasn't, now I actually DO like him and I don't want to lose my friends but he is such a great guy and he's so nice and I hope he wouldn't reject me but I can't do anything about it since my best friend likes him. I need serious advice coz I want the guy but I don't want to lose my best friends. HeLp Me!!!
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (18 March 2009):
 well if you care for your friends then id leave it and keep the friendship i mean you and this guy can always be friends and maybe they'll find someone else to like and then you can tell them you like him, i would sy talk to them about how you feel but if they kicked off because they thought you were flirting with him when you weren't maybe they just aren't understanding maybe back off for a while maybe find out who he likes and if it's you then tell them he doesn't like them maybe they'll move on but if it's not you and it's your friend then i'd back off and leave it up to your friend,
Hope things work out hun :)
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