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writes: There is this guy I like from school, but we only talk briefly in real life. I met him when his friend introduced us online and now we IM each other for hours every night. He's really nice and friendly, and he texts me too, but I can't tell if he fancies me or not.He's never indicated that he does, but it's hard to tell online unless you come right out and say it. I was going to go round to his house the other day but his mum wouldn't allow it and he seemed REALLY cross about that.So what do you think? Does he like me? If not, how can I make him like me?Thanks for all your help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): well, maybe he does like you but he just is to shy to say anything. you never know things may work out in the end. go and talk to him and ask him whether he thinks you and him can become more than friends. maybe explain to him you like him, and maybe drop into the convo whether he likes u too. if all that works out , well done relationship at dawn. but if u and him do end up going out, dont think it will be full on. because he will probz wanna get to no u more, and then maybe take things further. so dont worry. keep your chin up. and be brave and go for it!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2005): Well, it's a fairly simple subject, u IM him, u text him, but do u ever ring him or does he ever ring you.
I had a relationship like this, wrkd out brilliant when the air was cleard nd the truth was thr, the best thing to do is if u do like him, call him or just meet him where his mum isnt (mums can be very protective ovr their children even wen their oldr), nd wen u do, talk to him proprly nd hav a gd conversation then pop in the important questions. Making him like you? Don't sink to that level, it is his choice if he feels what u seem to be feeling for him.
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reader, AuntyLaura +, writes (29 October 2005):
 The fact that he was cross when you couldnt go round shows that he is interested but maybe just as a friend. What you should do is you need to start an interesting with him but say that you have to go. Next you can suggest that you carry on this conversation on at school. Now you have way to talk to him in real life to find out how he really feels. You could also suggest that you meet up outside school maybe go to the park or where ever you usually hang out - nothing too heavy. See how it goes xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2005): His mum wouldn't allow it? How old it this guy? Why would he hide behind his mother? Ask him how he feels, directly, on line, and live with the answer. I don't think there is really anything going on here, and I am sorry for you. He just seems like he wants someone to chat with, and maybe flirt with, but no serious relationship- not even dating. Maybe when he grows up and is no longer living with his mother, he will change. If you are unattached and still interested you can contact him again, and see what happens.
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