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writes: im so confused i dont know what to do.In August my best friend/first love, of 4 yrs, broke it off with me to be with someone else. I like one of my best friends. We get on so well and our humour is alike. We know we both like each other but it hasn't been said aloud, only in code in our conversations. My first love has come back to me telling me that he's completely in love with me, has told the other girl to leave him alone because he still loves me and i feel like he has changed but now im with him i dnt really feel the same.My best friend has found out that we're sort of back together and has told me that he likes me but he's so stubborn he's said that we can't be together.I don't know what to do.
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reader, guywithmajorproblems +, writes (23 November 2006):
Hey which guy do you like more? If you can answer that question then you know what to do, alot of people have that problem so just don't let it bother you that much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006): Yes you do know what to do and this is not an either or situation, If boyfriend A does not work out, I must have boyfriend B.
You no longer have the feelings you once had for your ex, you break it off with him and tell him you want to move on.
If the best friend/boyfriend really wants you and he sees you are available he may make his move, and if he does not hopefully you all can still have a friendship.
By the way, I am not familiar with conversations in code and how you decipher those, usually if a guy wants to date you he will ask you out on a date.
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reader, marie78 +, writes (23 November 2006):
Leave your ex and try something with your best friend. It never feels the same when you get back together with the man who broke your heart. That recently happened to me... but he's just using me, and I'm cutting things off this weekend- thanks to some great advice! ;-) So, my advice to you is to move on. Your ex rejected you, and you had to deal with that pain on your own. And now he wants to waltz back into your life. The reason why it feels weird is because he hurt you... he dumped you to have his fun with some other girl and now is ready to take you back. Come on?? Who's to say that he won't do that again?? maybe your ex-bf has changed, but the situation feels weird for a reason... look into it, and try something new. There are plenty of men in the world. Don't concentrate on just 1.
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reader, Starkiss +, writes (23 November 2006):
 honosly foget about your ex. go with the guy you like. your ex is probaly after u because your seeing someone else. he's just looking for som compation.
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