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writes: Hi I need some advice.... plz!!!sorry to be long but......I live away from my mum and dad, my brother lives in ireland and me in england and my mum and dad in scotland, i dont know what to do for christmas.I moved to england with my boyf last year (his dad was moving) and we spent xmas down here, as we had just came here and were still getting settled and cos it was our first xmas we spent it with my boyf, his dad and new partner + family.Now this year i dont know what to do, his dad has said him and his new partner might go away just the two of them but hasnt confirmed it. My boyf will be working up until xmas eve whereas i finish 20th and have the time free.Do i spend xmas with my mum and dad???? cos i didnt see them last year, or spend it with my boyf, or wait and see what his dad is doing, - if his dad dosent go away he will want to see him on xmas day, ive tried talking to him but he just says i dont know i dont know.I dont know if my mum would be sad not spending it with her and my dad again??????? and then im not sure if my brother is going home, cos if he and his girl does there wont be a bed for me to sleep in.If i did go back home my boyf wouldnt want to come he has a dog. and he is working anyway and wouldnt have time.So its either go home alone to scotland and then come back here for xmas day and spend wif boyf /+ his dad. or spend xmas day alone with my mum and dad and go back the day after boxing day???????????my mum just asks what r u doing for xmas? and i say i dont know. i just recently flew back to see them for a surprise visit in october when i took my mum out for a surprise concert.help!! im so confused as to what to do, and as time goes on the air fares are getting more expensive i need to do something now if i want to go back home.please help! whats the right thing to do??
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reader, Learning2Love +, writes (28 November 2006):
 Spend xmas with your parents and new years with your bf.
That's a compromise you can live with.
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