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writes:Few months ago I realized that I have crush on my schoolmate. I've known him for about 3-4 years and this year is the last year before we go to the university. He has always seemed a bit attractive for me and I suspected he likes me too, but I had a boyfriends. I think we have a lot in common, we perceive world on the similar way and often think about the same things. Besides that, he is way much more smarter than other guys at his age and he knows a lot of things, but he's not nurd at all.He stare at me everyday during hours and when he says something to me, his voice is softer and he has some softness in his eyes too. I have always suspected that he likes me, but I never can't be sure about it, because he is very good in hiding his feelings. On the other side, he always hug almost every other girls in class, but never me. And when he do that, he look at me and have kind of provocative smile on his face. He's often rude to me too and when I say something stupid (i often talk before think) he laugh how stupid I'm. Yesterday he had a birthday party and I thought that i'd have chance to be with him, but nothing happened. I was drunk and I kissed his friend and i think he saw it. I'm so sorry about that, don't know how to show him that it was completely meaningless. I remember the moment when we stare at each other for about 10 seconds and smile a bit, it was fantastic. I don't know what do to, this situation is quite complicated because he's my schoolmate and it would be a bit weird if I tell him that I like him and then see him everyday. I'd really like to be with him or go out, because I think we can have a great relationship or conversations if we will have a chance, but all we do is ignoring and teasing each other.Any tips? What would you do if you were on my position? We're both 18 years old.
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reader, michele21  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 Can you get drunk in bars there at 18?? Just curious... but I think you should just come out and tell him you like him, it sounds like he's trying to play hard to get with you like he likes you but tries to be mean with you because that's his way of flirting with you seems really cute and innocent though.... just be honest ask for his number so you can just call him that way you don't have to do it face to face.... it doesn't seem to me that he will reject you though.... good luck
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