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I cry when I have sex with my husband

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Question - (26 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I love my husband. He's a good man who looks after me and treats me like a princess. The problem is really odd. We rarely have sex and whenever we do I find myself crying. It's the weirdest thing and I'm scared he'll notice. It doesn't hurt, he doesn't make me do it - I just don't understand it. Has anyone else had a similar problem or any ideas why?

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (26 July 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntThere are no feelings of sadness or fear?

If you are enjoying the sex but still cry then it might be like tears of happiness. Our brain is not nearly as well designed as we like to think and sometimes the wires get a bit crossed.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

starfairy agony auntThat's a good thing...It's something to do with orgasm bringing on emotion, it's happened to me a few times.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntsometimes us women do cry after sex.

its more psychological and too do with the bonding process and subconscious issues.

dont worry about it,

and if he does see you crying explain you cant control it & its not because your sad!

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